Things Men Wish Women Knew About Them

Just like women, men also keep secrets to themselves especially about what they are thinking, and more often than not wish women knew what they are. What normally happens is when a man tries to open up to women, they take over, and soon the conversation is focused on them. Since men don't want women to feel that they are competing with communicating, they simply stop talking. Men are not biologically designed to have the capacity of processing through feelings. They have a shield around their heart to keep them from being hurt and they will only open up to women only when they think they are understood without being agreeable. If women will only help them out by listening to them, then they will seek them out more.

It's not really that difficult to understand men. In fact, men and women think the same way. Men just process their feelings differently because they are not in touch with their emotional side which sometimes makes it difficult for women to understand. Here are some of the things men wish women knew about them:

1. Men are also vulnerable - They may act invincible but they also get hurt and insecure. Men want women to trust and believe in them.

2. Appearance matters - Men want their partner's to always look good and attractive. They want women to take care of themselves.

3. Men also want to be praised - They make efforts to look desirable and attractive and they also want to be complimented for it. They also want to be praised that they are good boyfriends/husbands or son/father. It's a boost to their manly confidence and recognizing their efforts makes them feel appreciated and reliable.

4. Men don't want women to change them - They want women to accept them for who they are, especially their flaws.

5. Men want more sex but they are not addicted to them. They just want to be desired, wanted and loved.

6. Men may never admit it but they also cry.

7. Men needs space once in a while and they want women to understand that.

8. They want romance too. They just don't know how to do it.

9. Men are visual beings - When men see attractive women, they can't help but look at them. It is up to them, however, to control their urges or dwell on what they saw.

10. Men lie to make women feel good.

11. It makes them happy when women cook for them.

12. They love to spend time with partners but also seek companionship of their male friends.

13. They want women to be more confident about themselves than worry about their physical appearance.

14. They seek self fulfillment -They want to achieve success in life first before they decide to commit into a relationship.

15. Men love their girlfriend/wife. They just don't know how to express it.

These are just some of the things that go through a man's head and it's important that women knows about them. Men have feelings too and they are more sensitive than they appear to be. Learn more about Mastering the Law of Attraction by visiting rel=nofollow http://www.thesecretoflifebydesign.com

Janet Grace Ortigas is a freelance writer and online blogger

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Money, Wealth, and the Law of Attraction

If you focus on money, you are focusing on the wrong thing because money is not the real thing and it is very unhealthy for you and your finances. Look, instead, at the value within you and the flowing and exchanging of this value between people. Money is not real; it is merely a form of exchange to represent a value.
The first step to having money and wealth is to understand what these concepts are. Money is the symbol of wealth and the physical representation of value within us because without us, what can the value of a car be to us? Nothing!
We are the ones that place value in things; material things have no money value in themselves and they only have the value that we give to them. Our internal value is what creates money so if we develop this internal value our external money and wealth will definitely rise without fail. Our internal wealth value is called wealth consciousness, and this is available to all people and can be developed within all people and it is our choice to develop it or not and nothing can stop us if we want to.
You require nothing to increase your wealth consciousness and money, and since wealth consciousness is simply an expansion of your consciousness and awareness all you need is to increase it within you. By the Law of Attraction, you can start experiencing the wealth in you right now because you have more wealth capability within you than you can possibly experience is a lifetime and you need not worry about reaching your limit either. You don’t need to worry how to convert that wealth consciousness into money because it will happen automatically, all you need is to exercise expanding your wealth and situations and opportunities will present themselves to you.
Once you have wealth consciousness, it will be difficult for you not to have success and wealth because it will follow wherever you go and you need not concern yourself about finding it because it will find you.

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Can Beliefs and Attitudes Influence Cancer Outcomes?

Our beliefs and attitudes can influence cancer outcomes if we believe it is to be so. My mother had thyroid cancer for 14 years and she outlived the other patients because of her strong will-power and motivation to live. I remembered the story about two patients whose diagnostic results were mistakenly switched by technicians and they were given conflicting prognosis for their illness. What happened was, the cancer patient who was told that the mass found in her chest was benign survived but the other patient who was told she had cancer but didn’t, died after a year.

It has also puzzled doctors for a long time, why do they often see two similar patients with the same degree of disease and receiving the same treatment, but experienced totally different outcomes? One will die within a short time while the other will live for years or decades. In the early 1970’s radiation oncologists came to realize that patients who had a strong will-power and a strong motivation to live usually outlived the ones who were discouraged and hopeless. This is based on the observation designed to focus on changing the emotional attitudes of patients from depression and hopefulness to a heightened passion for living.

It was found out that the patients who did this work and modified their beliefs and attitudes lived twice as long as those who did not. Our immune system is the primary defense against both infectious disease and cancer because natural killer cells attack and destroy abnormal cells including cancer and their level of activity is a good predictor of the outcome of cancer. Corresponding to this mechanism is the group of hormones and neurotransmitter that regulate our immunity, and the formation of new blood vessels as well as other healing mechanism in our body. Interestingly, it has been repeatedly proven that our emotional states have the power to influence those hormones and chemicals and this modulation of our immune system and other healing systems has been shown to correlate very intimately to specific emotions that’s why if you believe that you have cancer, you will have. For example, anxiety and depression increase our serum cortisol level which turns off the immune system and a state of hopefulness, enthusiasm about life. Relaxation, and purpose, on the other hand, stimulates our defense systems and is a powerful antidote to stress and it was proven that relaxation exercises produces the best outcomes because it will lead to the reduction of stress levels and boost your feeling of joy and serenity that will bring more joy and happiness into your reality.

Alternatively, try to identify the unhealthy belief that triggers the emotional distress, and change those beliefs, change your emotional self from the predictions of statistics or doctors by the power of positive thinking because if you change your lifestyle, and deepen your spiritual beliefs, the universe will respond by giving you the quality of life that will significantly improve your survival rate.

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Prosperity, Individuality, and Happiness

Prosperity is not just about how much money you have, it is also about being happy, healthy, and living your life true to your belief and being that you really are. This may be difficult to achieve especially if your decisions depend so much on what others want and expect from you. The problem with today’s norm is that when people defies cultural attitudes, and don’t think the way most people do, they are judged and become the subject of gossip and these negative reactions normally stem from jealousy.

Achieving true prosperity requires you to adopt a way of thinking that is completely contrary to everything you hold true in your mind, and this requires faith that you can create whatever circumstances you choose with the power of your mind. You also have to take responsibility of your life and not blame it on someone or something when everything else fails. Therefore, it is important that you invest in the mental effort to accept that adopting these beliefs will make you odd to other people.

True happiness and prosperity requires that you follow your own path and accept that most people will have something to say about it this is because most of us believe the exact opposite and it takes a great deal of mental discipline to change these faulty beliefs but it is possible. True prosperity means doing the things you love personally and professionally. Some people whose parents choose their career path for them or who were pressured to remain in their family business has made them feel empty and miserable because they sacrificed themselves to fit in.

If you align your mind with the right thoughts, you will prosper in anything you do so start doing what you love, and be who you are so you’ll see how to be truly prosperous while earning the money in a way that does not kill your spirit. Don’t worry about what other people will think of your decisions because their reactions are just projections of their own mental perceptions, and it has nothing to do with you. Break free of the worry about what other people think about you and go after the life you truly want because worrying about others will keep you from breaking away and you will remain exactly where you are.

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My 12 Law of Attraction Secret Codes Summary

My secret codes are not really secrets they are more of like elements I used in super charging manifestation into my reality. I used these step by step codes to ensure I don’t fall short of my desires. I have tried them over and over again and it always worked.

I felt I should share them especially to those who are skeptical about it, those who have tried but failed and those who don’t know how and where to start. Believe me you don’t need special mind power to be able to successfully apply the principles of The Law of Attraction into your life. All you need is the willingness to learn and the effort to make a change in your life.

You can use The Law of Attraction in every aspects of your life. You can use it to attract money, health, abundance, happiness, the perfect job, and even the relationship you want. Don’t listen to your inner dialogue telling you about all the things you don’t have to achieve what you desire. Once you have determined what it is that you really want, focus on it, visualize it until you feel it in every level of your being then affirm it to yourself over and over again and it will manifest into your reality.

I know this is not easy especially if this is your first time and your friends or family doesn’t support this idea or belief. You have stay focused and positive and try to be with people who have a positive outlook so that you will attract more positive impulses into your reality. There are many people over the internet that can support your beliefs and they are more than willing to help you.

You should try the principles I used or you can make your own variations as long as it works best for you. Believe me, that this is not what others label as a ‘cult’ or some kind of religion. The Law of Attraction is about using the power of your mind and allowing yourself to be a magnet to everything that you desire. We all have it, it’s just that we forgot to use it as we grow older so if you want to change your present circumstance why don’t you try these principles and you will be amazed at what it will deliver to you.

It doesn’t matter how young or how old you are as long as you are certain what it is that you really want to have in your reality and focus on it. You can start right now. It’s never too late. The universe is waiting for your order. I encourage you to share your thoughts to my blog by sending me your personal experience so that we can share it to others while we help, learn, and inspire one another.

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My Secret Code of the Power of Manifestation #12

Manifestation is an art of making your desires materialize. Manifestation is an intention of placing your desire, visualizing it, and affirming it to yourself as many times a day as you can and it will come true. You don’t have to have special powers to do this because this is a natural science, and it is innate in all humans and it is called “The Law of Attraction.”

I made the power of manifestation as my 12th secret code because this is the final stage in reality creation. Many people don’t believe this to be true because they don’t know how to control their thoughts. But, if your thoughts are in alignment with what you desire, then manifestations will occur.

Remember what the saying goes, ‘be careful what you wish for, you might just get it?’ Well, this is true because you may have noticed that when we wish for something more often than not, it will manifest in our reality. Now, manifestation is based upon vibrational match meaning you don’t always need money for what you want because the object of your desire will manifest in different ways.

I always wanted to drive my own car, however, I don’t have the amount of money required to buy it, but it never stopped me from visualizing and affirming to myself that I’m going to have it. And guess what, it came back to me because I send out a correct vibration to the universe. How did I get the car I want? My fiancé bought it for me. And because my vibration is stronger and clearer it manifested in my reality 4 months earlier than I expected.

Things manifest whether we want it or not this is because the universe responds to our emotions and it doesn’t care whether they are wanted or unwanted. This is the reason why it is important to have the correct mindset by filling our conscious and subconscious mind of all the positive thoughts so that when we are clear of our intentions and we visualize and affirm it to ourselves over and over again, it will manifest into our reality.

I will give you an example of a common manifestation. I used to work in a 2am – 11am shift in a call center environment 60km away from home. I like the job, I needed it, and I was actually happy for the first 3 months but when the work schedule changed it affected me badly not because it’s too hard to keep the job but because my energy takes the better of me that I had to leave in the end. I knew I was drawing the opportunity for me to leave my job because I wasn’t happy anymore and it affected my health. Before I resigned, I was looking for home-based jobs but I couldn’t find anything that interests me until my eldest daughter told me about this online outsource company her friend is working with.

This is an example of manifestation that I didn’t do on purpose. I did not want to leave my job but I certainly like the idea of working from home as a writer and my daughter was the circumstance that opened an avenue for opportunities to help manifest my desires into reality. You can do it too if you allow yourself to use the principles of The Law of Attraction to manifest your desires into your reality.

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